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Therapy and Theology

Therapy and Theology

Lysa TerKeurst

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Have you ever looked at a situation you’re facing in utter disbelief and thought, "How will I ever get over this?" Lysa TerKeurst understands. After years of heartbreak and emotional trauma, she realized it’s not about just getting over hard circumstances but learning how to work through what she has walked through. Now, she wants to help you do the same. That’s why Lysa teamed up with her personal, licensed professional counselor, Jim Cress, alongside the Director of Theological Research at Proverbs 31 Ministries, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, to bring you "Therapy & Theology." While Lysa, Jim and Joel do tackle some really hard topics, you’ll soon find they're just three friends having a great conversation and learning from each other along the way.

Episodes

S11 E4 | "What Does It Mean To Be Relationally Healthy?" With Lysa TerKeurst

S11 E4 | "What Does It Mean To Be Relationally Healthy?" With Lysa TerKeurst

A relationship can only be as healthy as the individuals in that relationship. So how can we grow and show up as our best selves for the people in our lives? In this episode, you’ll learn: Four things that erode or even break apart a good relationship. How to improve communication and work through conflict when you’re feeling misunderstood. How to answer the question "What is really bothering me?" so you can identify root issues. Links and Resources We Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of I Want to Trust You, but I Don't by Lysa TerKeurst here. We’re grateful to the American Association of Christian Counselors for being a yearlong sponsor of Therapy & Theology. Go to Compassion.com/Lysa to join us in sponsoring a child through Compassion International today. Subscribe here to receive new Therapy & Theology episodes straight to your inbox. Want a chance to be featured on Listener Mail? Leave Lysa, Jim, or Joel a message or a question right here. Help women experience God’s nearness in this and every moment. Receive Come Close to Jesus as our thanks for your gift today. Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
51min•Mar 5, 2026
S11 E3 | "What Does It Mean To Be Emotionally Healthy?" With Counselor Rebecca Maxwell

S11 E3 | "What Does It Mean To Be Emotionally Healthy?" With Counselor Rebecca Maxwell

Our emotions are God-given signals designed to guide us toward greater self-reflection, self-awareness, and spiritual growth. But how do we learn to manage our feelings instead of letting them control us? In this episode, you’ll learn: How to maintain emotional health, whether you tend to suppress your emotions or feel them intensely. Practical strategies for staying emotionally regulated as a parent. How relationships contribute to our emotional well-being — for better or worse — and how to improve this. Links and Resources We Mention in This Episode: We’re grateful to the American Association of Christian Counselors for being a yearlong sponsor of Therapy & Theology. Go to Compassion.com/Lysa to join us in sponsoring a child through Compassion International today. Subscribe here to receive new Therapy & Theology episodes straight to your inbox. Want a chance to be featured on Listener Mail? Leave Lysa, Jim, or Joel a message or a question right here. Help women experience God’s nearness in this and every moment. Receive Come Close to Jesus as our thanks for your gift today. Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
37min•Feb 26, 2026
S11 E2 | "What Does It Mean To Be Mentally Healthy?" With Jim Cress

S11 E2 | "What Does It Mean To Be Mentally Healthy?" With Jim Cress

In today's world, it can feel like stress is unavoidable. Is constant pressure and burnout just part of life now? How can we protect our mental health with so much pulling at us? In this episode, you’ll learn: How to identify stressors in our life and assess how you're really doing. What to do when you feel overwhelmed by shame. Practical scripts you can borrow to reach out to someone when you need help. Four essential questions to ask your loved ones as you support their mental health journey. Links and Resources We Mention in This Episode: We’re grateful to the American Association of Christian Counselors for being a yearlong sponsor of Therapy & Theology. Go to Compassion.com/Lysa to join us in sponsoring a child through Compassion International today. Subscribe here to receive new Therapy & Theology episodes straight to your inbox. Want a chance to be featured on Listener Mail? Leave Lysa, Jim, or Joel a message or a question right here. Help women experience God’s nearness in this and every moment. Receive Come Close to Jesus as our thanks for your gift today. Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
44min•Feb 19, 2026
S11 E1 | "What Does It Mean To Be Spiritually Healthy?" With Dr. Joel Muddamalle

S11 E1 | "What Does It Mean To Be Spiritually Healthy?" With Dr. Joel Muddamalle

If you’ve ever been tempted to confuse spiritual health with spiritual perfection, this conversation is for you. In this episode, you’ll learn: The markers of a spiritually healthy Christian and the daily habits they consistently pursue. The overlooked patterns that may be threatening your spiritual health and relationship with God. How to escape shame, guilt, and isolation and return to the Lord — who has never left your side. Links and Resources We'll Mention This Episode: Download the "Healthy Conversations Contract" Jim talks about here. We're grateful to the American Association of Christian Counselors for being a yearlong sponsor of Therapy & Theology. Go to Compassion.com/Lysa to join us in sponsoring a child through Compassion International today. Subscribe here to receive new Therapy & Theology episodes straight to your inbox. Want a chance to be featured on Listener Mail? Leave Lysa, Jim, or Joel a message or a question right here. Help women experience God’s nearness in this and every moment. Receive Come Close to Jesus as our thanks for your gift today. Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
48min•Feb 12, 2026
Introducing Season 11 and What’s in Store for 2026

Introducing Season 11 and What’s in Store for 2026

Therapy & Theology is back for the first time in 2026! Season 11 includes four brand-new episodes designed to help you take an honest look at your life and grow healthier — spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and relationally. Think of this season as a “health check,” where each episode dives deep into a key area through meaningful one-on-one conversations with a trusted Therapy & Theology voice. This season isn’t about quick fixes or becoming a “new you” overnight. It’s about sustainable healing, biblical wisdom, faith-based mental health, and learning how to partner with the Holy Spirit for lasting growth — even when progress feels slow or life feels out of your control. These episodes will especially help: Anyone who feels stuck, discouraged, or unsure where to begin making progress. Those longing for spiritual, mental, emotional, and relational growth. Anyone feeling “I’m just not where I want to be,” who needs gentle guidance, prayerful reflection, and trusted Christian voices. Episode 1 releases February 12. Links and Resources We'll Mention This Season: We’re grateful to the American Association of Christian Counselors for being a yearlong sponsor of Therapy & Theology. Go to Compassion.com/Lysa to join us in sponsoring a child through Compassion International today. Subscribe here to receive new Therapy & Theology episodes straight to your inbox. Want a chance to be featured on Listener Mail? Leave Lysa, Jim, or Joel a message or a question right here. If you’d like to give a gift today so Therapy & Theology can reach even more women in their desperate moments, go to proverbs31.org/givenow. Click here to download a transcript of this episode.
9min•Feb 5, 2026
Bonus: Receiving Judgment, Reaching for Closure, Rebuilding Trust | Q&A Part 2

Bonus: Receiving Judgment, Reaching for Closure, Rebuilding Trust | Q&A Part 2

In this bonus Q&A episode, Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Counselor Jim Cress respond to voice memos sent in by Therapy & Theology listeners. In This Episode, You’ll Learn How To: Navigate conflicting narratives and opinions from others. Respond to someone whose actions and words don't align. Make peace with your desire for clarity and closure as you move forward from a past relationship. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Give today to partner with Proverbs 31 Ministries and help more women encounter the Truth of God's Word. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " Moving Through the Impact of Trauma." Listen to " Mile Markers of Healing." Watch " You’ve Been Through So Much — Now Let God Use It."
27min•Dec 18, 2025
Bonus: Confronting Regret, Co-Parenting, Finding the Courage To Move Forward | Q&A Part 1

Bonus: Confronting Regret, Co-Parenting, Finding the Courage To Move Forward | Q&A Part 1

In this bonus Q&A episode, Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Counselor Jim Cress respond to voice memos sent in by Therapy & Theology listeners. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: How to accept the life you have today, instead of being stuck in ruminating over the past. What to do when life feels "stalled out" and you're waiting for God. Practical tools for co-parenting with an ex-partner and how to approach dating again post-divorce. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Give today to partner with Proverbs 31 Ministries and help more women encounter the Truth of God's Word. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " When Divorce Makes You Feel Like You Weren't Enough. " Listen to " How To Be Brave When You Don't Feel Brave. " Watch " Stop the Shame Scripts Holding You Back. "
37min•Dec 12, 2025
S10 E6 | Tools To Fight Anxiety and Better Your Mental Health

S10 E6 | Tools To Fight Anxiety and Better Your Mental Health

When life takes an unexpected turn — whether it’s going through a divorce or another unwanted circumstance — it can feel like survival mode is the only option. Our mental health begins to suffer, bringing increased anxiety, loneliness, and endless what-if questions. But there is hope — and this conversation with Lysa TerKeurst, Shae Hill, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Rebecca Maxwell will help you find it. In this episode, you’ll learn: How the Bible and therapy actually complement each other, rather than compete with each other. Practical rhythms and activities for your mind that can help lead to peace. How to take the mystery out of anxiety by knowing exactly how to recognize it. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Get your copy of Jesus & Your Mental Health by Rebecca Maxwell, and learn more about Rebecca's practice, Jacksonville Counseling Services, by visiting their website. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " When Divorce Makes You Feel Like You Weren't Enough " to hear a teaching on taking your thoughts captive. Listen to " How To Be Brave When You Don't Feel Brave. " Watch " Stop the Shame Scripts Holding You Back. "
38min•Oct 16, 2025
S10 E5 | How To Accept a Future You Never Wanted

S10 E5 | How To Accept a Future You Never Wanted

The cure for grief isn’t time — it’s acceptance. Acceptance helps you process what has been lost, let go of what will never be, and discover new meaning and purpose moving forward. In this episode, you’ll learn: The five stages of grief and why grief recovery is a continual loop — not a simple, linear process. How to stop romanticizing the past and use healthy reality checks to overcome nostalgia. Practical ways to reconcile good memories while healing after loss or moving on from a past relationship. How to take back your power by asking one life-changing question instead of obsessing over what you can’t control. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. We want to hear from YOU! Take this survey to let us know how we can better serve you. See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " Moving Through the Impact of Trauma. " Listen to " Mile Markers of Healing. " Watch " You’ve Been Through So Much — Now Let God Use It. "
36min•Oct 9, 2025
S10 E4 | How To Forgive When the Hurt Was So Unfair

S10 E4 | How To Forgive When the Hurt Was So Unfair

Forgiveness often feels like an unfair gift we have to give to someone who hurt us the most. But what if it's actually God's prescription for the hurting human heart to heal? In this episode, you’ll learn: The dangers and costs of unforgiveness. How to maintain a soft heart heart when you're scared to get hurt again. The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. What to do when you get triggered again. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " The Daily Cure for a Heavy Heart. " Listen to " Are There Some People We Shouldn’t Trust Again? " Watch " What if I Don't Feel Ready To Forgive? "
37min•Oct 2, 2025
S10 E3 | When Divorce Makes You Feel Like You Weren't Enough

S10 E3 | When Divorce Makes You Feel Like You Weren't Enough

After a life-altering experience like an unwanted divorce, the dust may settle, but your mind keeps racing. Questions like Why wasn’t I enough?, What could I have done differently?, or How did I miss this? spiral on repeat. Without healing and healthy processing, these thoughts turn into faulty beliefs that make moving forward even harder. In this episode, you’ll learn: Who is a trustworthy source of truth to speak into your life. What is a three-step process to take your thoughts captive based on 2 Corinthians 10:4-5. How to live in the identity God has given you, instead of the circumstances that have happened to you. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " How To Be Brave When You Don't Feel Brave. " Listen to " You Are Worthy of Being Chosen " With Jim Cress. Watch " Stop the Shame Scripts Holding You Back. "
34min•Sep 25, 2025
S10 E2 | Is Infidelity the Only Reason for Divorce?

S10 E2 | Is Infidelity the Only Reason for Divorce?

Divorce is so deeply complex, confusing, and gut-wrenching — especially when you are blindsided by betrayal and left facing a future you never asked for. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why Matthew 19 is often misunderstood and debated, and what Jesus actually meant. What the connection is between Old and New Testament teachings on marriage and divorce. How to keep refusing shame so you can walk toward deeper healing for your future. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships " With Leslie Vernick. Listen to " Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal? " Watch " How To Deal With Emotional Abuse."
38min•Sep 18, 2025
S10 E1 | Does God Hate Divorce?

S10 E1 | Does God Hate Divorce?

Divorce is a deeply painful experience that often carries layers of shame and confusion, especially for Christians. While we don't want to glorify divorce in anyway, we also don't want people quietly suffering without a place to turn. In this episode, you’ll learn: What it means to be an image bearer of God — whether you're married or single. Why passages of Scripture, like Malachi 2:16, are often misunderstood and how you can know what the original text actually means. How to refuse the shame-filled accusations the enemy throws at you. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention in This Episode: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go Deeper: Listen to " How Can I Trust God When I Don’t Understand What He Allows? " Listen to " You Are Worthy of Being Chosen" With Jim Cress. Watch " Stop the Shame Scripts Holding You Back."
36min•Sep 11, 2025
Season 10 Trailer | Surviving an Unwanted Divorce

Season 10 Trailer | Surviving an Unwanted Divorce

For years, Lysa TerKeurst has walked alongside women who never wanted their marriage to end yet find themselves navigating the grief, shame, and unanswered questions that divorce brings. Now, Lysa, alongside theologian Dr. Joel Muddamalle, Licensed Professional Counselor Jim Cress, and other special guests, offers listeners the emotional fortitude and biblical confidence they need to move forward. These episodes will especially help: Someone who has suffered or is currently suffering through an unwanted divorce. Friends, family members, Bible study leaders, pastors, and counselors who are walking with others through their own devastating season. Christians who have long been confused about what the Bible says about divorce. Episode 1 releases on September 11, so make sure you're subscribed, and we'll see you then. A special thank-you to our partner for this season: Convoy of Hope. For over 30 years, Convoy of Hope has helped vulnerable communities around the world — and empowering women and girls is a key part of that mission. Convoy of Hope partners with women so they can start their own businesses to better support themselves and their families. Because when women are empowered, entire communities are transformed. Links and Resources We'll Mention This Season: Get your copy of Surviving an Unwanted Divorce by Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle, and Jim Cress. Be notified as soon as new Therapy & Theology episodes are available! Enter your email address here to subscribe and stay connected. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! See Lysa in a city near you this fall on the Trust Again Tour. Bring a friend, and get your tickets here! The Therapy & Theology podcast is brought to you by Proverbs 31 Ministries. Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to help women encounter the Truth of God's Word in every season. Learn more here! Go Deeper: Listen to " I’m Afraid I’m Being Betrayed." Listen to " How To Move On When Someone Walks Away." Watch " How Do I Talk About Divorce With My Kids? "
6min•Sep 4, 2025
S9 E4 | Red Flags That May Be Sneaking Into Your Parenting

S9 E4 | Red Flags That May Be Sneaking Into Your Parenting

Whether you're parenting biological, foster, or adoptive children or navigating your own healing journey from when you were a child, this conversation is for you. In this episode with Meredith Brock, Jim Cress, and Bethany Hall, you'll learn how to: Recognize your personal triggers and how they affect your parenting style. Understand the importance of healing past relational trauma. Identify signs of fear or shame responses in your children. Use practical ways to bring calm into your parenting. Balance structure and nurture with connected, grace-filled parenting. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7: p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."
49min•Jul 31, 2025
S9 E3 | Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal?

S9 E3 | Is Every Red Flag a Big Deal?

It's one thing to recognize red flags in your relationships. It's another thing to know what to do after that. In this episode, you'll learn: Five spectrums to consider when determining how serious a red flag is. Guidelines for determining if a particular red flag is something that needs to be confronted or self-managed. How to grow in awareness of red flags without getting overwhelmed or scared to get close to others. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."
26min•Jul 24, 2025
S9 E2 | Six Red Flags To Watch For in Any Relationship

S9 E2 | Six Red Flags To Watch For in Any Relationship

Noticing red flags doesn’t make you critical — it makes you wise. In this episode, you'll learn: Six red flags to be aware of — whether you're building new relationships or evaluating existing ones. How to talk to someone about behavior that concerns you. How to best utilize godly discernment as you grow in self-awareness. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."
35min•Jul 17, 2025
S9 E1 | “Is This a Red Flag?” Here’s How You Can Know

S9 E1 | “Is This a Red Flag?” Here’s How You Can Know

Have you been interacting with someone and concern rises up within you? An unsettledness bubbles up? Your guard goes up, and you start thinking things like: I don’t know if I can trust them. I don’t know if I can believe what they’re saying. Am I safe to share with them? If so, this first episode in our new season, "Red Flags in Relationships," is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: What a red flag is and what it isn't. How to recognize areas of concern for ourselves without shaming or blaming another person. Two crucial ingredients that must be present for a relationship not to just survive but flourish. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and fostering better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."
29min•Jul 10, 2025
Season 9 | Red Flags in Relationships

Season 9 | Red Flags in Relationships

Summertime is a season for sunshine, long days, and making memories with the people closest to us. But let’s be honest — more time together doesn’t always mean more connection. It could create more tension. And sometimes that’s because we can no longer ignore red flags that are now staring us in the face. Whether you’re single, dating, married, or navigating complicated family dynamics — we're diving into it all this summer. In Season 9, Lysa, Jim, and Joel will help you learn: What is a red flag? What are some red flags to be aware of? Is every red flag a big deal? How to respond to red flags you may notice in yourself. How to navigate red flags in family relationships. Helpful Links for This Season: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Want More on This Topic? Destructive Relationships."
1min•Jul 3, 2025
S8 E6 | Is Pornography Actually Harmful?

S8 E6 | Is Pornography Actually Harmful?

The (sometimes secret) struggle with pornography takes an emotional and spiritual toll on individuals, marriages, and families. It's a multifaceted issue that requires a multifaceted healing plan. In this episode, you'll learn: How pornography affects intimacy, identity, and trust. Tools and tactics for having conversations around this topic without fear. What to do (and not to do) the moment you discover something. Scriptural passages to turn to on pornography. Helpful Links Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Download “Trust Is a Track Record: 5 Scriptural Truths To Remember God’s Faithfulness" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Purchase "The Trust Journey Bundle" that includes I Want to Trust You, but I Don't by Lysa TerKeurst as well as The Trust Journey (a guided journal to use alongside I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t ) here. We'd like to extend a special thank-you to our sponsor for this season, Compassion International. When you sponsor a child, you'll receive the “Proverbs: The Beginning of All Wisdom” study guide as our gift to you! Go to compassion.com/proverbs31 to get started! Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Want More on This Topic? Listen to "Can We Talk About the Porn-demic?" here. Listen to "Addiction: Signs, Symptoms, and How To Get Help" here. Watch "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships" here.
44min•May 8, 2025
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