It's one thing to recognize red flags in your relationships. It's another thing to know what to do after that. In this episode, you'll learn: Five spectrums to consider when determining how serious a red flag is. Guidelines for determining if a particular red flag is something that needs to be confronted or self-managed. How to grow in awareness of red flags without getting overwhelmed or scared to get close to others. Links we mentioned in this episode: Download "Is This Normal? 15 Red Flags You May Be Missing in Your Relationships" by Lysa TerKeurst here. Sign up for a $10 webinar on September 4 at 7 p.m. ET with the Chosen team to learn about attachment styles and foster better communication with your children — no matter their age. Have a question for Lysa, Jim, or Joel? Leave us a message, and it could be answered on one of our future podcast episodes! Start here. Click here to download a transcript of this episode. Go deeper: Listen to "Red Flags We Shouldn’t Ignore in Relationships." Listen to "Here Is Your Permission To Set Boundaries" With Jim Cress. Watch "Difficult vs. Destructive Relationships."