Lily Szabo was a classic Type A overachiever: running a hostel, managing a team, living and dying by her calendar. Then she got pregnant and hoped motherhood would cure her burnout. Spoiler: It didn't. She had to completely rebuild her sense of self without external validation, deliverables, or adult conversations. What You'll Learn: The difference between self-esteem and self-worth (and why it matters for mothers) Why postpartum anxiety might be a normal response to having no village How to deprogram from "productivity mindset" when caring for a baby Putting work last: self first, family second, everything else after Building your own village About Lily: Lily Szabo is a mom, community builder, and digital nomad visa nerd based in Chiang Mai, Thailand. She hosts the Amagi Village podcast exploring how we redesign community in today's landscape, and alongside her husband runs CNX Local - a trusted guide for families relocating to Chiang Mai. She's raising two daughters while advising founders, nurturing local community, and learning to live intentionally. Links: Discover your To-Do List personality: thetodoshow.com/quiz Lily's Podcast (Amagi Village): youtube.com/@amagilife CNX Local: cnxlocal.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/itslilyszabo More episodes: thetodoshow.com