Alina Fattakhova tells her clients which women rejected them and exactly why. She's a luxury matchmaker in New York City, and people pay her to deliver brutal honesty wrapped in strategy. She treats finding a life partner like applying for jobs. Spreadsheets, data points, reverse engineering your timeline from age 35 backwards. What You'll Learn: Why people apply to 200 jobs in two weeks but won't do the same for dating The "illusion of choice" problem in New York City dating (and why it makes people less willing to commit) How raising prices actually brought better, more self-reflective clients What it's really like to tell a 40-year-old man why stunning blondes keep rejecting him Why nerdy clients with dating spreadsheets often find patterns they need to break The accountability party trend: forcing yourself to do hard tasks (like scheduling a sleep study) About Alina: Alina Fattakhova is a matchmaker and founder of a boutique matchmaking agency in New York City. She went from luxury jewelry sales to construction bidding to discovering her real talent: connecting people. Now she runs events, screens matches, and gives people the reality checks they're paying for. Links: Discover your To-Do List personality: thetodoshow.com/quizMore episodes: thetodoshow.com