Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and whether you’re coupled up, single, or planning a night out with your best friends, the goal is the same: feeling like the most confident version of yourself. This week, Tam is joined by fashion powerhouse and former Vogue China fashion director, Grace Lam. She’s also one of the hosts of Unleashed, Mamamia’s brand new podcast for Gen X women who need a laugh right now. She's worked with the likes of Jude Law, Hugh Grant, Kate Moss, and Naomi Campbell... but today she's helping us get ready for date night. She's taking us through her top international styling tips, which brands we need to be watching right now, and why she wants you to stop buying "boring" staples and start raiding your partner's wardrobe. Plus, the $80 shoes she gets stopped for in the street, and why "intentional styling" is the secret to never having a wardrobe meltdown again. Anderson. Agni Thong Detail Heel $429. Grace's Budget: Clementine Double-Strap Slingback Mary Jane Pumps - Red $96. Tam's Budget: Heaven Mayhem Clemmie Earrings $162. GET YOUR FASHION FIX: Watch us on Youtube this episode goes live at 8pm tonight! Sign up to the Nothing To Wear Newsletter to see all the products mentioned plus more, delivered straight to your inbox after every episode. CREDITS: Host: Tamara Holland Guest: Grace Lam Producer: Ella Maitland Audio Producer: Jacob Round Video Producer: Artemi Kokkaris Just so you know — some of the product links in these notes are affiliate links, which means we might earn a small commission if you buy through them. It doesn’t cost you anything extra, and it helps support the show. Happy shopping! Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.