"Some call it chaos, we call it family." Summary In this listener-driven episode we will tackle the real-life tension of raising a big family through changing seasons. What happens when your college kids come home expecting independence, but your house still runs on structure? How do you manage media, respect, and responsibility without turning every conversation into a power struggle? We also dig into the quieter challenges: surviving pregnancy while caring for little ones, creating meaningful one-on-one time in a full house, and keeping family dinners from unraveling into chaos. Along the way, we address a heavier worry many parents carry—can you build a large, healthy family without burning out or placing too much on older kids? Listen in for some honest, practical guidance grounded in real experience. For more information on this and other topics visit: https://www.messyfamilyproject.org/