This week, I'm talking about why February magnifies stress and how silent expectations turn Valentine’s Day into a painful guessing game. I share three steps, speak hopes out loud, name no‑gos, and define success together, plus simple date ideas and thoughtful, affordable gifts. • February’s emotional slump and money stress • how silent expectations create resentment • say what you want in clear, specific words • name what you don’t want and offer alternatives • collaborate on a shared defin...