I'm kicking off a March series on “getting lucky” by showing why great intimacy isn’t luck at all. Real emotional safety and compassionate curiosity create the right context for desire to grow, and I'm giving you my Green Light Conversation tool to help you start. • debunking the myth of effortless, spontaneous intimacy • how stress, resentment, and distraction cool desire • why desire needs safety and play to thrive • what blocks safety: criticism, pressure, feeling unseen • the rejection–p...