In this interview with Dana Che, we break the myth that happy couples don’t fight and show how conflict, handled well, can deepen intimacy. We share mindset shifts, practical language, and simple steps to move from defensiveness to understanding. • redefining conflict as a growth path • the costs of avoidance and silent treatment • modern marriage and renegotiating roles • separating facts from feelings and stories • understanding over agreement as the goal • curiosity and vulnerability as a...