***Pick up a copy of Jay’s new Journal: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal How do we raise kids—and grow as parents—who don’t crumble under pressure but become stronger through hardship? In Episode 402 of Let’s Parent on Purpose, Jay Holland is joined once again by author, missionary, and leadership coach Virgil Tanner for a deep, practical conversation on antifragile faith—the kind of faith Jesus describes as a house built on the rock. Together, Jay and Virgil explore why anxiety and fragility have become normalized in modern culture, how Christian discipleship often unintentionally reinforces weakness, and what it looks like to intentionally form resilient, grounded followers of Jesus. Drawing from Scripture, neuroscience, leadership formation, and lived experience—from COVID lockdowns to pediatric cancer hospital rooms—this episode offers parents a hopeful and actionable framework for nurturing spiritual, emotional, physical, cognitive, and relational health. This conversation will challenge how you think about discipleship, parenting, and what it truly means to love God with all of who you are. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why storms don’t reveal weakness—they reveal foundations How culture has reframed fragility as virtue—and why that’s spiritually dangerous The difference between changing behavior and changing the story we live in Why discipleship must be whole-person formation, not just Bible knowledge The five dimensions of the soul: spiritual, physical, cognitive, emotional, relational Simple daily practices that cultivate resilience and joy Why modeling matters more than lecturing when discipling kids How families can become “houses on the rock” for others Why noticing emotions comes before managing or forgiving How loving God with heart, mind, soul, and strength leads to abundant life—not burnout Key Scriptures Referenced Matthew 7:24–27 — The House Built on the Rock Luke 10:25–28 — The Greatest Commandment 1 Corinthians 10:31 — Doing Everything for the Glory of God John 15:11 — “That My joy may be in you, and your joy may be full” Practical Takeaways for Parents Formation happens relationally and communally, not just informationally Shared and modeled habits shape kids more than rules Emotional maturity begins with naming emotions without judgment Gratitude reframes suffering without denying it Thriving families talk openly about how they’re really doing—not just how they’re performing Let’s Parent on Purpose is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcasting Network. For more information, visit www.ChristianParenting.org About Virgil Tanner Virgil Tanner is a leadership coach, author, and missionary who has spent years equipping leaders and families to cultivate resilient, Christ-centered lives in high-pressure environments around the world. His work focuses on integrated human flourishing and forming leaders who can endure—and thrive—through adversity. Resources & Links: Renewed: The 365-Day Christian Gratitude Journal by Jay Holland Soul Tending: Leadership for Strategic Human Flourishing Check out www.youthministry.coach Daily Devotional Podcast Guided by Faith: www.guidedbyfaith.net Join my Things for Thursday Email List and get a free Marriage Snapshot Tool and Fun Family Conversation Ebook! Support Let’s Parent on Purpose as we help families thrive through the gospel: https://letsparentonpurpose.com/support/