In this episode of In It, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome parenting coach Mary Van Geffen. Mary offers online classes including a special one for moms of what she calls “spicy ones.” She also shares fun, funny, and relatable posts every day on Instagram. Mary talks with Gretchen and Rachel about parenting spicy kids and how to know if you, too, are spicy. What does it mean to be spicy? Are you spicy? And what should you do about it? Related resources Parenting tips when you and your child have ADHD Body doubling for ADHD: What it is and how it works 5 oddly specific ADHD strategies that help me work Listen: ADHD and: Parenting fails Listen: Double trouble: ADHD moms share what it’s like to parent kids with ADHD Mary Van Geffen: Parent Coach for the Spicy OnesTM Timestamps (1:10) Defining “spicy ones” (4:41) Parents’ worries about themselves as parent (7:36) What impacts children most (8:59) Dealing with sensory overload as a parent (16:51) Organization challenges for parents with ADHD (18:55) Body doubling For a transcript and more resources, visit the In It page on Understood. We love hearing from our listeners. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company.