In this episode, Dr. K explores the "Alchemy of High Functioning Depression" (HFD)—a condition that is not officially recognized in the DSM-5 but may be even more common than regular depression. He explains why people who appear to be "keeping it together" are often just bailing water out of a sinking boat to keep from drowning. What to expect in this episode: The Coping Strategy Trap: Why an over-reliance on survival mechanisms allows you to plow forward without ever addressing the underlying problems in your life. Obsession with Role and Identity: A look at how the pressure to be a "good parent," a "successful doctor," or a "provider" forces people to double down on a life that makes them miserable. The Default Mode Network: The neurology of HFD, where the brain's "self-reflection" circuit hyperactivates, causing constant, exhausting thoughts about improving the self. Toxic Positivity and Denial: How avoidant coping—denying your negative feelings or your circumstances—leads to a higher risk of suicidality and mental burnout. Sublimation (The Inner Alchemy): Why taking the feeling of wanting to quit and turning it into "badass" effort can lead to a successful career in a profession you actually hate. The Risk of Cracking: Why those with high functioning depression have a 300% to 400% higher risk of eventually falling into a full-blown depressive episode. Patching the Hull: Practical advice on how to move forward by letting negative emotions surface and questioning if your idealized role is worth sacrificing your life for.Dr. K's NEW Guide to Love, Sex, & Relationships is coming May 2026! Pre-order now: https://bit.ly/4dO3x0VHG Coaching: https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3SztHG Memberships: https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services: https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices