Coach Kevin Martin is a prolific content creator, shame dissolver and Post Shame warrior. He uses adult content as part of his coaching practice, primarily with gay men. He's a coach in every sense of the word: in real life, and in a committed internet-character kind of way, too. I like to say that shame cannot survive in my presence and Kevin is the same way. In this conversation, I make the joke that — like Gandhi says — "Make the porn you want to see in the world." A riff, of course, on "Be the change you want to see in the world." But while researching the links for this episode I found out Gandhi never actually said “Be the change you want to see in the world.” That’s a kind of distillation of this real quote: "We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change.” And I love this — because that's exactly what Post Shame and Kevin are up to. Helping people move through the shame that's stuck in their bodies. Because like Gandhi actually says: we but mirror the world. As we dissolve our own shame… we help heal it in others. And if you’re curious about what I’m referencing with Björk - “Don’t let poets lie to you." You can Find Kevin on his website, Bluesky, Onlyfans and JustFor.Fans as Coach Kev Martin. Feel it on your face, that’s how you know you’re doing it right, turn towards the light and find your light. Get it get it get it.