I’m excited to share a fantastic episode from when I was the guest on Your Child Is Normal with pediatrician Dr. Jessica Hochman. Jessica and I spoke about how to help kids become socially confident in a world where so much interaction happens on screens. From teaching kids to initiate plans instead of waiting to be invited (adults need to master this too!), to why proximity and real-life time together matter more than ever, this is a practical conversation about what helps kids make and keep friends. We also got into what it looks like for parents to support friendships—hosting, encouraging, and sometimes stepping in—without over-managing. It's not easy! This discussion includes plenty of nuance. If you’re raising kids in today’s tech-heavy world, this one will give you a lot to think about. We talk about: Why kids (and adults) need to learn to initiate—not wait to be invited The importance of proximity and “hyper-local” friendships for kids when possible How parents can encourage friendships without forcing them (Accept that kids' friendships WILL change, even when the parents are close.) Rethinking reciprocity (it’s not tit-for-tat) How to help kids navigate friendship conflict and give each other grace The reality of drifting friendships and why it’s not always a failure How screens and over-scheduling are changing kids’ social lives Simple, practical ways to help kids feel more confident and socially capable Thoughts on being "the hosting house" Meet Dr. Hosted by Dr. Jessica Hochman — a board-certified practicing pediatrician — the show combines evidence-based medicine, expert interviews, and real-world parenting advice to help listeners navigate everything from sleep struggles to mental health, nutrition, screen time, and more. 📱 Subscribe to my newsletter “Conversations About Friendship” on Substack ❤️ Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & the Dear Nina Facebook group 📪 Ask an anonymous friendship question 📪 email: dearninapodcast@gmail.com 🔎 Want to work with me on your podcast, your friendships, or need another link? That’s probably here. Special thank you, as always, to my assistant producer, Rebekah Jacobs!