Ever wonder who keeps fetish spaces on Reddit from falling apart? In this raw, honest, and long-overdue convo, I sit down with Cesar the long-time mod of Fetish Buyers Community and Fetish Want Ads and partner of creators spicy tea to talk about what it’s really like running the backend of these massive fetish subreddits.We go deep into burnout, boundaries, moderating chaos, and how being behind the scenes completely changed both our perspectives on the fetish community. This episode will challenge how you view buyers, sellers, and the power dynamics in online fetish spaces.We talk about the mental load of unpaid mod work, why moderation teams matter, how creators and buyers can communicate better, and what it actually takes to keep a market space safe and functioning for over 100,000 people. Cesar shares how he went from buyer to mod, what made him stay, and why it’s finally time to let go (but not without a legacy).If you’ve ever felt jaded, overwhelmed, or just curious about what really happens when something goes wrong behind closed doors, this one’s for you.This isn’t just tea. It’s the handbook on why community-led moderation matters and what needs to change for creators and buyers alike.Watch this if you want to:Understand Reddit fetish market dynamicsSee both buyer and creator perspectivesLearn what happens with scam reports & review processingReflect on burnout and boundaries as a creator/modLearn how better communication could change everythingWatch this if you want to: ✅ Understand Reddit fetish market dynamics ✅ See both buyer and creator perspectives ✅ Learn what happens with scam reports & review processing ✅ Reflect on burnout and boundaries as a creator/mod ✅ Learn how better communication could change everything 🌐 Visit the Reddit CST Communities: Visit r/creators_spicy_tea: https://www.reddit.com/r/Creators_spicy_tea/ Visit r/FetishSpicyTea: https://www.reddit.com/r/FetishSpicyTea/