In the new special segment “Just You Wait,” Laura and Shanna flip the usual fear-mongering script about parenting older kids and share some of the things that get better as children grow up. Also, Shanna gives an update on Cece’s ear-piercing saga, and Laura reports on her 5-year-old's ENT appointment to discuss his ear tubes. Finally, the moms share their BFPs and BFNs for the week, including a family board game that turned out to be a huge hit and a delightfully bizarre piece of "junk mail." Shanna’s kids are 7 and 10 years old, and Laura’s kids are 7 years old and 5 years old. Topics discussed in this episode:Following through on something scary and being proud of yourselfGoing to the ENT to discuss ear tubes for your childUsing a digital otoscope at homeThe things that get more fun and entertaining as kids get olderThe joy of kids becoming more independent with snacks and bedtime readingSweet ways older kids show love and affectionHow much easier life gets when you can leave the room without constant worryWatching your child stick with an activity and build real skills over timeA family board game that helps kids practice money skillsA hilarious prank-mail Products, links, and resources mentioned in this episode:Digital otoscopeThe Allowance GameLakeshore LearningCoin rollersAlan Wagner on InstagramTrueWagner.com Past BFP episodes mentioned in this episode:Ep. 401 - Where Shanna originally takes Cece to get her ear pierced Connect with UsFollow us on social: Instagram, TikTok or Facebook at @bfppodcastJoin our Facebook community group for support and camaraderie on your parenting journey.Visit our website: bigfatpositivepodcast.comEmail us: contact@bigfatpositivepodcast.comSend us a voice message: speakpipe.com/bfppodcast If you enjoyed this episode, help spread the word by sharing the show or leaving a review. Thank you! Big Fat Positive: A Pregnancy and Parenting Journey is produced by Laura Birek, Shanna Micko and Steve Yager. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.