What if your sexual health was as important as your heart rate? What if understanding your sexuality was the final frontier of truly knowing yourself? In this groundbreaking conversation, Dr. Juliana Hauser—sex therapist, author of A New Position on Sex, and expert in sexual agency—challenges everything we've been taught about sexuality, pleasure, and desire. Dr. Hauser explains why sexual wellness isn't something you add to your to-do list (if you're breathing, you're already a sexual being), and why the real work is about developing sexual agency: the skill of knowing your yeses and nos, listening to your body, and showing up authentically in all your relationships. Episode Overview (timestamps are approximate): (0:00) Intro/Teaser (4:00) Why Sexual Wellness Is a Vital Sign for Women’s Health (8:00) If You’re Breathing, You’re Sexual: Reframing Sexuality (9:00) Sexuality as the Final Frontier of Self-Development (21:00) Sensuality & Self-Discovery: Learning Your Yucks and Yums (25:00) Why Knowing Your Anatomy Is Essential for Sexual Health (32:00) Genital Show and Tell: Celebrating Anatomical Diversity (35:00) Labiaplasty & Cosmetic Surgery (44:00) The Arousal Cycle & Why the Standard Model Is Flawed (50:00) Menopause & Sexuality: What Changes (57:00) Aging Vulvas & Why We Need Better Education (59:00) UTIs, Sepsis & Sexual Health: The Hidden Mortality Risk (1:07:00) After Party: Dr. Stephanie’s Reflections on Sexual Wellness Resources mentioned in this episode can be found at https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep465 We couldn’t do it without our sponsors: OXFORD HEALTHSPAN PRIMEADINE - A whole-food spermidine supplement that supports cell renewal and healthy aging. Save 20% at https://OxfordHealthspan.com/DrStephanie with code DrStephanie. COZY EARTH - Cozy Earth helps you feel better by keeping your temperature perfect overnight to facilitate deep restorative sleep. Head to https://cozyearth.com and use my code BETTER for up to 20% off. TIMELINE - Timeline’s clinically proven formula is now available at a new, lower price. Mitopure now starts at $79, when you go to https://timelinenutrition.com/better with code BETTER. APOLLO - The Apollo wearable supports energy, focus, relaxation, and sleep by syncing with your rhythms. Go to https://ApolloNeuro.com/BETTER to get $99 off Apollo with Smart Vibes AI. PIQUE LIFE - If you want to redefine your evening ritual and still feel like yourself the next day, you can get 10% off for life. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you: Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife. Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company.